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posted by: lostin2007 (reply) post date: 02.02.07 (10:14 pm) rofl tooo funny but yet so true. I know i'm that way at times. lol posted by: doeeyed (reply) post date: 02.03.07 (5:55 am) OMGosh, I love it Mimi!!! Thank You :) I'm sending this to my husband right now! posted by: PastorDave (reply) post date: 02.03.07 (6:30 am) I did not give the correct answer. I'd be interested to know how other men fared on this one. I just saw a piece on the Today Show about how couples who have been married for 20 years or longer are getting divorced at an alarming rate. They were saying that women can put up with alot of abuse, emotionally/physically/verbally, but that when the men retire and are home all the time, it just becomes too much. Apparently lots of men have a problem considering what a woman may want. posted by: mimi (reply) post date: 02.03.07 (6:36 am) Reply to: PastorDave Perhaps this alarmning rate would not be occurring if the men had become and stayed an integral part of the lives of their wives and not just "bread winners"! Too many men think that is all that they are needed for...maybe us mom's need to rethink what we teach our children! A woman will go out and find a life of their own, surrounding herself with love from other sources, ie, children, friends, work, community service, for no woman I know can live without love...so, men, take note, and pay attention to what is going on around you, especially in your own homes! xoxoxox posted by: PastorDave (reply) post date: 02.03.07 (9:14 am) The generation of my parents, and yours, had a different understanding of husband/wife relationships. The man was the bread winner. The wife stayed home and raised the children. And the wife would stay devoted to the marriage contract, I'm thinking as much for finacial and social reasons more than love. Women's liberation has changed things. It's made women to want more, which is a good thing. It's given them the opportunity to live financially independent of a husband. So you are right, I think. Men need to pay more attention to their wives & families, since women now demand it. And, I think the roles of men and women have been unhealthily muddled in our society. When you accept a role for yourself and expect it for another, it certainly simplifies matter. If both are happy with the understood roles, then the relationship can prosper. But, when you have society demanding that you throw out such understanding, then a byproduct is a lot of unhappy people, busy making everybody else unhappy. posted by: surrogate (reply) post date: 02.03.07 (10:18 am) Reply to: PastorDave No Dave. Society isn't muddling it. Women have realized that they're full feldged people too and don't need to be subserviant to the whims of men. If we men would relize that it's always been a stupid thing to act as though we're "more equal" than women, all the "muddling" disappears in a flash, and real partnerships can flourish. The only people I know who are worried about this are men who see themselves losing the upper hand and weak women who felt comfortable with the situation cuz it was all they knew. Another couple of generations and it'll all shake out - I'd guess about the same time racism really starts to actually disappear in this society. |
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